Thursday, January 6, 2011

Tell Me A Story...

Because international candlelightings are hard to plan on short notice and in an effort to fill everyone in on THE Story of the Century, I thought I'd blog about the details of January 4, 2011--the day I got my bling bling and a great fiance too!

Alex arrived in Australia on December 31st to spend 12 glorious days. Before he got here, I had myself convinced that there was no way he was going to propose. Since he had been here, he kept making comments about how we weren't getting married for 2 years and tried to pull me into every jewelry store in the mall to look at rings. He tricked me. He's in PR, so he's pretty good at "stretching" the truth.
Tuesday, January 4th was a normal great day. Alex and I had a double date with some of our great Aussie friends, Laura and Cristiaen Van Der Meulen, which ended in a giant nerf war (awesome double date activity, by the way). Laura and Cristiaen left my apartment about 10:30 pm and Alex said we should go sit out on my jetty (dock) and watch the boats in the dark. I didn't really want to go because it was chilly and I was tired from play nerf guns, but I agreed anyway. We were sitting on the dock talking about our New Year's Resolutions, individually and as a couple. Then, we started slow dancing, still talking about life, having a nice romantic moment. Before I know it, Alex has pulled away from me and is down on one knee!! He said a bunch of really sweet things, none of which I can remember, and all the while I am thinking, "I can't belive he is ruining this great moment with an engagement fake out." Though he claims otherwise, he has faked me out before. All I can say is "Are you serious?? Alex, is this real? That is really not funny!" (I always thought I wouldn't be one of "those" girls who says "are you serious?" but I definitley was! It's impossible not to say it.) After asking if he was serious about 7 more times and seeing him pull out this gorgeous ring, I knew it was for real. I did finally say, "Yes!" and he promised to be an amazing husband, a spiritual leader, and to love me until the day he dies. Sigh. It was like heaven, just the two of us sitting on the dock, starting our lives together--it was perfect. So there's my sweet little story about love! (that's a shout out for you Jill Nichols)

The Ring: Taking a good picture of a ring is really hard, which I'm sure some of you know. So there aren't any good close up ones yet, but you get the idea from these pics. The middle diamond and its setting are from Alex's Grandmother's wedding ring, so it's over 65 years old! He took her diamond and put it on my band. I feel so honored to have such a precious piece of our family's heritage.

The Plan: no dates have been set yet. I will be in Australia until mid-June like I already committed, then I'll be moving back to Edmond. The earliest we would get married would be in October, but nothing is concrete yet. Just letting everything sink in. I'll keep you posted!
THE spot where he got down on one knee
Just a little bit excited!!!!

MFEO

10 comments:

  1. Yeah!! So excited for you guys! I am glad he stuck with his original plan, though he tried to convince me otherwise. Cannot wait to see you and the ring and have you back here for good! Love you JGray!!

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  2. YAY! That is so sweet!! I'm soo happy for you two!! Love that he used his grandmother's wedding ring. Happy Wedding planning..it's a lot of fun!!

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  3. you will be a beautiful bride and an amazing wife. It makes me tear up a bit to read what he promised to be to you. You two will make each other so happy and even better -- serve the Lord together as husband and wife. I AM SO EXCITED!!!

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  4. I'm so happy for you two! You are a beautiful lady, inside and out. We love you and miss you tons. Congrats and best wishes.

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  5. To the future Jenny Jones (does that make us siters, cousins or what?): I am so excited for you both! From the first time he walked into the Plaza I knew that he would be perfect for you! So happy that it has all come true for you! Love you both.

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  6. congratulations!!!! so excited for you!

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  7. Yay! Thanks for sharing the story! Blog candle lightings will just have to do for now and i love it. For the record, i was just as excited as I would have been for a live candle lighting ;) Also, I didn't realize you were going to be able to move back to Edmond so soon, yay, very exciting. Enjoy being a fiance!!!

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  8. CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am so happy for you and Alex...he is one lucky guy. I wish I could hug your neck and squeal just a little bit. And the best part is that now you guys "qualify" to go to Disney World with us. :)

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  9. I don't know how I missed it, but I saw on Facebook where your mom was asking about engagement pictures!! So I went back and saw that you are engaged! I'm so happy for you. You will be a beautiful bride. Tell that man of yours that Miss Gail said to treat you right! Love you!

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  10. eeeeeeeeeee I'm SO excited for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Best news ever!! Wow, what a special place to have that memory. I'm praying for your last months apart

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